Why does success seem to come so easily to some and for others no matter how hard they try, it just runs in the opposite direction? This question has been the topic of countless books, seminars, Cd's, DVDs and even talk shows.
But again, why do some people get it and others don't? If you have read more than ten books and maybe even attended a seminar or two on the subject, you should begin to notice some very common components that the most popular down to the little known resources share.
Those components can basically be broken down into 3 steps; Accept, Believe, Change- The ABC of Success!
Accepting that your circumstances are what they are because of you is a tough pill to swallow.
In America we are so careful to "avoid" blame at all costs.
It carries such a negative connotation, however when we accept that it is simply our Thought Patterns that have created our current successes and failures, it opens up the door for us to believe that we can actually have what we want.
Part of this process, is to remove the behavior of blaming outside forces and to focus on how our destructive thoughts are the real culprit.
Once you examine the thought patterns that run through your conscious mind on a continuous basis, you most likely are to find that you have been constantly bombarding yourself with "failure thinking" instead of "success thinking".
At this point is it is not important to wonder or even worry how you will change these patterns, just become aware of how powerful thoughts are.
Now that you understand the first part of the abc of success, you can end the frustration and restore hope.
That's where belief comes into play.
It is so very critical that you believe you can be successful.
Even if it is something that you struggle with, if you can muster up enough belief to actually envision yourself as a successful person, and all that that personally entails for you, change will be easier to attain.
With even the tiniest amount of belief, anyone can change.
The success cycle actually goes in a circular motion and you will see that in just a moment.
At this stage you can do this "manually" or "automatically" the choice is up to you.
When you are ready to Change the thoughts in your conscious, you can do this by thinking and talking on WHAT you want, NOT what you Don't want.
In other words, when a thought about failure or lack of money crops up, snuff it out with one that is prosperous, like how it will feel when you have_____.
Or visioning yourself when you are_____.
This is the manual way and while it does take time, it is very effective and will slowly remove each and every negative thought that has been sabotaging your success.
The "automatic" way to success is to bypass your conscious mind and go straight to your subconscious mind where there is no judgment or battle with thoughts.
The subconscious just ACCEPTS what it is given.
That is why the use of subliminal messages can be a Very Powerful Tool when it comes to the war on achieving success.
This is because subliminal messages are not "seen" consciously but rather hidden in order to avoid any type of doubt or rebuttal.
They are the best tool for fast, permanent change and the abc of success!
But again, why do some people get it and others don't? If you have read more than ten books and maybe even attended a seminar or two on the subject, you should begin to notice some very common components that the most popular down to the little known resources share.
Those components can basically be broken down into 3 steps; Accept, Believe, Change- The ABC of Success!
- Accept--Perhaps this is the most challenging of the concepts to follow, however just like an addiction, once you accept that your success or lack of is completely in your hands you can proceed onto the next level.
Some people just try to whiz through this to get to the good stuff! Let me assure you, this is the good stuff! - Believe-- that you can be successful and envision yourself as nothing but living the Good Life!
- Change--Change the thoughts in your conscious and you will re-program you subconscious to take you where you want to go.
Accepting that your circumstances are what they are because of you is a tough pill to swallow.
In America we are so careful to "avoid" blame at all costs.
It carries such a negative connotation, however when we accept that it is simply our Thought Patterns that have created our current successes and failures, it opens up the door for us to believe that we can actually have what we want.
Part of this process, is to remove the behavior of blaming outside forces and to focus on how our destructive thoughts are the real culprit.
Once you examine the thought patterns that run through your conscious mind on a continuous basis, you most likely are to find that you have been constantly bombarding yourself with "failure thinking" instead of "success thinking".
At this point is it is not important to wonder or even worry how you will change these patterns, just become aware of how powerful thoughts are.
Now that you understand the first part of the abc of success, you can end the frustration and restore hope.
That's where belief comes into play.
It is so very critical that you believe you can be successful.
Even if it is something that you struggle with, if you can muster up enough belief to actually envision yourself as a successful person, and all that that personally entails for you, change will be easier to attain.
With even the tiniest amount of belief, anyone can change.
The success cycle actually goes in a circular motion and you will see that in just a moment.
At this stage you can do this "manually" or "automatically" the choice is up to you.
When you are ready to Change the thoughts in your conscious, you can do this by thinking and talking on WHAT you want, NOT what you Don't want.
In other words, when a thought about failure or lack of money crops up, snuff it out with one that is prosperous, like how it will feel when you have_____.
Or visioning yourself when you are_____.
This is the manual way and while it does take time, it is very effective and will slowly remove each and every negative thought that has been sabotaging your success.
The "automatic" way to success is to bypass your conscious mind and go straight to your subconscious mind where there is no judgment or battle with thoughts.
The subconscious just ACCEPTS what it is given.
That is why the use of subliminal messages can be a Very Powerful Tool when it comes to the war on achieving success.
This is because subliminal messages are not "seen" consciously but rather hidden in order to avoid any type of doubt or rebuttal.
They are the best tool for fast, permanent change and the abc of success!
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