How to develop your child"s self confidence, obedience, happiness in a family unit and outside this
In this world we are living today their is a manual, course or a training for almost any kind of carreer we want to pursue. When we have children there is no manual that comes with the birth of that specific baby. There are so many different personalities of people in the world, so it is difficult to think that every child or parent can ever be the same. That is why my article is only advice as I am not trying to undermine your integrity or way of bringing up your child.
Firstly I would like to say that the most important aspect for a happy child is happy parents. You should connect with your spouse, there should be a sound communication level between you. There has to be love and respect.
Secondly to develop a child self esteem, the parent should have a high self esteem. I think that when you have a high self esteem the following attributes should help you achieve this: A spiritual connection with your creator, A happy and carefree attitude, A genorous heart and soul, A compassionate human being, A good listener. There are so much more but it could go on forever.
Thirdly a child looks up to the parents, when they come into this open world innocently they should have the parents as role models. They mimic everything we do, so we have to be proper in our actions. We have to shower our kids with love and affection each and everyday, hugs, reminders of how much we love them. Tell them that we are proud of them, make them feel that they can depend on us as kids. Advise them to choose the right friends is very important, advise them to connect with their creator spiritually. Teach them about respect for others and also explain to them that not everyone would want to to be their friend and that we get different types of people in this world. Also teach them to assert themselves so that they could learn to cope with peer pressure and all the other obstacles in life. Give them a solid foundation and a encourage them to always strive to use their full potential in life.
There are so much more that I would like to share with you, but next time.
Firstly I would like to say that the most important aspect for a happy child is happy parents. You should connect with your spouse, there should be a sound communication level between you. There has to be love and respect.
Secondly to develop a child self esteem, the parent should have a high self esteem. I think that when you have a high self esteem the following attributes should help you achieve this: A spiritual connection with your creator, A happy and carefree attitude, A genorous heart and soul, A compassionate human being, A good listener. There are so much more but it could go on forever.
Thirdly a child looks up to the parents, when they come into this open world innocently they should have the parents as role models. They mimic everything we do, so we have to be proper in our actions. We have to shower our kids with love and affection each and everyday, hugs, reminders of how much we love them. Tell them that we are proud of them, make them feel that they can depend on us as kids. Advise them to choose the right friends is very important, advise them to connect with their creator spiritually. Teach them about respect for others and also explain to them that not everyone would want to to be their friend and that we get different types of people in this world. Also teach them to assert themselves so that they could learn to cope with peer pressure and all the other obstacles in life. Give them a solid foundation and a encourage them to always strive to use their full potential in life.
There are so much more that I would like to share with you, but next time.
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